Monday, October 15, 2018

Narcissists - doing spiritual bypassing which eventually lead us to become the biggest fraud ... #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo

Narcissists  - doing spiritual bypassing which eventually lead us to become the biggest fraud

Spiritual bypassing has been a common act from narrcissists. As we think that we are the greatest and most perfect being that everyone needs help except ourselves

"A spiritual bypass or spiritual bypassing is a "tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid facing unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds, and unfinished developmental tasks".[1] The term was introduced in the early 1980s by John Welwood, a Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist.[1][2][3] Spiritual bypass can be addressed with various forms of psychotherapy, including focusing and motivational interviewing.[2][4] " (An extract from WIKIPEDIA)


Looking back at what my mindset used to be, I was in this delusion that I am this special being, “believing” that I am this great being who has sacrificed myself to “support” others,  was brainwashing myself as being kind, empathic, supportive, understanding … the list goes on. Strangely .. I do not accept that I have any negative traits in me as I lied to myself that I have “work hard” in “healing” my self.

This is clearly seen when I was having association with #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo. In the many conversations that we had, it was always about how people around her not being effective, not cooperative and that they need to look within themselves so that they will not hinder “others” progression, indirectly she was telling me that the other volunteers were a hindrance for her ambitions and grand plan to spread her name across Australia and the Chinese region.

In the 2017 reunion, #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo was seen the ONLY one not doing the questionnaire that she demanded the other volunteers to do, she was acting like a boss, monitoring especially myself and Rita to ensure that we do our share of the questionnaire, scan through our papers to check if we cut corners or answers she deem as not “good enough” in her eyes.

I have never seen #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo putting any effort to even look at the questionnaire, she was busy directing others, using the reunion platform to “attack” Clarito and the rest of the Sydney volunteers. #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo’s tactic was to purposely direct the attention to the other Sydney volunteers of their short comings so that her acts will not come to light. #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo was making use of the position as greatest volunteer, the fake identity that she has created for herself to manipulate the other volunteers to do they dirty job for her.

This can be seen as a concrete evidence, especially after #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo left Kosmic Fusion, not only she has created a new fake identity of being a victim, she also justify her own acts by running a smear campaign to discredit all the Love, Grace and support showered upon her by Sree Maa and Shri Ji. Let’s be honest with ourselves, when the truth hit hard on us about who we truly are, the first reaction is in denial, then retaliate … that’s what been seen by #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo

#Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo was making use of this wave, being this “heroine” and now she became this “healer” who wanted to “help” people who can benefit from her experience.

Breakdown of #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo strategy

1. Discredit others so to create doubts and confusion - #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo runs a smear campaign, to discredit Kosmic Fusion, Sree Maa and Shri Ji so that when the TRUTH come to light, nobody will believe it, because she has appealed to the public as a victim, this is to get her own name out in this smear campaign to ride on Kosmic Fusion to build her publicity
2. Media Platform - #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo then started to use the media platform such as Facebook, Instagram, Youtube to promote her script. As well as using it as her marketing tool.
3. Created a fake profile - Self proclaimed, certified “healer” to trap innocent people as her supply.  #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo never provide any official certification for her claims, because she knew that the ready supply will be in so much pain that they will overlooked this fact.
4. Scam to sell products - If we further do research on her community as a member, #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo started to trap innocent people who trusted her to start her scam. Her objective is always about money making. If anyone who join her website will know that she has promote a “package”, #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo was aiming for the lump some of money that will come into her bank account but never wanted to be morally responsible and be answerable for what she can truly delivered.
5. Use word salad - Eventually when the innocent people, who joined her community will be told very superficial advise like “ look within to get an answer”, “ be still and quiet” … if it is all about looking within to connect to the truth, why would anyone need #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo in the first place? Why would anyone needed #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo to facilitate the crystal healing session when the crystal itself is has been emitting the healing energies to people who connect with them

"A word salad is a "confused or unintelligible mixture of seemingly random words and phrases",[1] most often used to describe a symptom of a neurological or mental disorder. The words may or may not be grammatically correct, but are semantically confused to the point that the listener cannot extract any meaning from them. The term is often used in psychiatry as well as in theoretical linguistics to describe a type of grammatical acceptability judgment by native speakers, and in computer programming to describe textual randomization."  (Extract from WIKIPEDIA)

From the above analysis, I can see that #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo is making use of the “middleman” position to squeeze the profit out of the genuine ones who needed guidance and help … #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo is never out to help anyone. It is so ridiculous that #Awakening with Joy / #Joy Kuo even wanted to steal credit of the crystals who cannot fend for themselves for being abused by this so call “healer”


I would like to appeal to anyone who has been approached  by #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo, please use your discernment and decide if she is a genuine person.


Thursday, October 11, 2018

How Narcissist can be the greatest Illusionist, Fraud, Con-Artist

One of the common traits of a Narcissist is Grandiosity, in this grandiosity Narcissists seek for attention, demand "respect", self proclaim being this great achiever / victim of some events.

To a Narcissist, even a negative attention is attention. What we need are eyes on us so that we can be the centre of attention, to be in limelight to orchestrate our games, when there are no participants, we will loose interest and seek for another outlet which will fulfill the needs to be this "great" being. In this process, Narcissist hunt for the ready victims (enabler/empathy) to be the supply.

Below shows a systematic plan Narcissists do to get into the new fake identity ...

Step 1) Building up the Fake Identity - self deluded image of being this great being/ victim of self written sob stories

Step 2) Grooming, recruit Flying Monkeys - by playing kind, appear approachable to gain trust (collect information)

Step 3) Start  Character Assassination - filling the victims' ears with lies, gossips to prepare the flying monkeys to do projection, triangulation, set target on whom narcissists are wary and suspect will exposed them in near future

Step 4) Discredit whom the Narcissist deem as threat - Start playing the games of victimhood to gain sympathy, claiming that s/he is the biggest victim of what happened, giving one-sided manipulated stories to show how s/he fights the "bad" and come out strong

Step 5) Build a new Fake Identity - Being this great person who has overcome obstacles and overnight become a expert of some field, without any proper certification/ official document as proof.

New round of fake identities, lies and deception begins .... new set of innocent victims will fall for their sob stories and become their supply ....

Now, let's look #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo as a case study, what has she display so far that fit into the below actions in the next blog.

Building up the Fake Identity
Grooming, recruit Flying Monkeys
Character Assassination
Discredit whom the Narcissist deem as threat 
Build a new Fake Identity

Please refer to the below link for more insight:


Discussion of different types of Narcissist traits in us

This is a discussion that Rita/Nandini and myself had sometimes ago when we were doing reflection of the type of Narcissist traits that we h...