To a Narcissist, even a negative attention is attention. What we need are eyes on us so that we can be the centre of attention, to be in limelight to orchestrate our games, when there are no participants, we will loose interest and seek for another outlet which will fulfill the needs to be this "great" being. In this process, Narcissist hunt for the ready victims (enabler/empathy) to be the supply.
Below shows a systematic plan Narcissists do to get into the new fake identity ...
Step 1) Building up the Fake Identity - self deluded image of being this great being/ victim of self written sob stories
Step 2) Grooming, recruit Flying Monkeys - by playing kind, appear approachable to gain trust (collect information)
Step 3) Start Character Assassination - filling the victims' ears with lies, gossips to prepare the flying monkeys to do projection, triangulation, set target on whom narcissists are wary and suspect will exposed them in near future
Step 4) Discredit whom the Narcissist deem as threat - Start playing the games of victimhood to gain sympathy, claiming that s/he is the biggest victim of what happened, giving one-sided manipulated stories to show how s/he fights the "bad" and come out strong
Step 5) Build a new Fake Identity - Being this great person who has overcome obstacles and overnight become a expert of some field, without any proper certification/ official document as proof.
New round of fake identities, lies and deception begins .... new set of innocent victims will fall for their sob stories and become their supply ....
Now, let's look #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo as a case study, what has she display so far that fit into the below actions in the next blog.
Building up the Fake Identity
Grooming, recruit Flying Monkeys
Character Assassination
Discredit whom the Narcissist deem as threat
Build a new Fake Identity
Please refer to the below link for more insight:
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