How Narcissist can be the greatest Illusionist, Fraud, Con-Artist

One of the common traits of a Narcissist is Grandiosity, in this grandiosity Narcissists seek for attention, demand "respect", self proclaim being this great achiever / victim of some events.

To a Narcissist, even a negative attention is attention. What we need are eyes on us so that we can be the centre of attention, to be in limelight to orchestrate our games, when there are no participants, we will loose interest and seek for another outlet which will fulfill the needs to be this "great" being. In this process, Narcissist hunt for the ready victims (enabler/empathy) to be the supply.

Below shows a systematic plan Narcissists do to get into the new fake identity ...

Step 1) Building up the Fake Identity - self deluded image of being this great being/ victim of self written sob stories

Step 2) Grooming, recruit Flying Monkeys - by playing kind, appear approachable to gain trust (collect information)

Step 3) Start  Character Assassination - filling the victims' ears with lies, gossips to prepare the flying monkeys to do projection, triangulation, set target on whom narcissists are wary and suspect will exposed them in near future

Step 4) Discredit whom the Narcissist deem as threat - Start playing the games of victimhood to gain sympathy, claiming that s/he is the biggest victim of what happened, giving one-sided manipulated stories to show how s/he fights the "bad" and come out strong

Step 5) Build a new Fake Identity - Being this great person who has overcome obstacles and overnight become a expert of some field, without any proper certification/ official document as proof.

New round of fake identities, lies and deception begins .... new set of innocent victims will fall for their sob stories and become their supply ....

Now, let's look #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo as a case study, what has she display so far that fit into the below actions in the next blog.

Building up the Fake Identity
Grooming, recruit Flying Monkeys
Character Assassination
Discredit whom the Narcissist deem as threat 
Build a new Fake Identity

Please refer to the below link for more insight:

https://www.kosmicfusion.com/false-claims-vs-truth-reality-check-on-the-story-of-joy-kuo/

Narcissists in the Ashram House - Jeeya & Rita (Part 1)

In 2016 March, the Ashram project finally has the chance to realize after Sree Maa and Shri Ji has graciously agreed to accept the invitation.

With the Grace and Compassion of Sree Maa and Shri Ji we started the Ashram House project. The objective is for us to run a trial, test run and prepare ourselves for future Ashram. In the Ashram House, we were given an opportunity to learn, with guidance of Sree Maa, what a real Ashram is like because we have never stay in one before.

Vision of Ashram House

Is to have a place for learning and rejuvenate our soul. In the Ashram house there will be rooms for visitors to read holy scriptures, meditation rooms, temple where the Mandir will sit and a hall to listen to discourses of Sree Maa. There will be a room where visitors will sit and reflect on their weakness and negative sides and another room where healing will happen.

Such a Noble Vision of the |Ashram House and been misused by people like me to make the Ashram House into a war-zone for Narcissists' games of manipulation, lies, vengeance.

Sadly all these sacrifices that Sree Maa and Shri Ji made was disrespectfully disregards first by me and Rita, followed by me inviting Dallia/Iphigenie into the Ashram House and #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo who came to steal Kosmic Fusion intellectual properties.

Jeeya and Rita

When we first moved into the Ashram House, both Rita and myself were playing games, I had in mind to use Sree Maa to control and curb Rita, as in my colored lenses Rtia was trying her way to wiggle out of the Ashram House duties that supposedly we both had agreed to share and I was venting my frustration about her with my complains and sob stories to Sree Maa. 

Instead of working together to come out with a routine how an Ashram House should operates, how an inventory should be like, how to effective work together as a team, I was trying to get every opportunity to bring Rita down. It was chaotic in the Ashram House. Never once I ever showed my gratitude by offering a proper meal for Sree Maa and Shri Ji. Both Rita and myself were waiting to be served by Sree Maa, because I did not want to learn anything at all in the first place.

I was making use of the Ashram project and Sree Maa to control Rita as we were constantly having cat fight, the sacred space of the Ashram House was polluted with our negative energies I did not take on this Ashram House project seriously, i was lying to the other innocent volunteers who support this Ashram House project how hard life was, when the truth was I was out working in the morning and came back in the evening waiting for Sree Maa to cook dinner for me. 

I never make any real effort in running the Ashram House, it was all for show, for the fake identity of mine.

Ashram House is a good place for people like me who has no discipline at all, as I reflect it's the environment that plays a part in the change in people like me. Is it with the constant guidance of Sree Maa that I am able to look deeper into myself , get to know myself instead of be in denial, so that I can have a chance to heal.

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Encounter with 2 ex-Kosmic Fusion Volunteers - Awakening with Joy/ Joy Kuo (part 1)

The fake image (Masks)

I first knew #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo in the Sydney Expo back in 2013. First impression of #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo was that her physical look is petite and seems to be a gentle and timid lady. No one is would be wary of someone who look so approachable and this is the trap that Narcissist has advantage over most their victims.

Blaming is always one way to shift responsibility for Narcissists

Being a narcissist myself, I took the advantage of Sree Maa to get the free lodging from #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo who has offered her place for me during my 3 days in Sydney, so that she can get into Sree Maa’s good book,as we know by now there is always an agenda behind all actions of Narcissist and that’s where we got to know each other.

Narcissists invested their time on their victims

#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo already targeted me as her flying monkey because she sees me as someone close to Sree Maa and Shri Ji, she wanted to be that special person as well to fulfill her needs for grandiosity. #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo systematically execute her plan and start her grooming process.

#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo shared with me her background of where she started her spiritual journey (Buddhism) to portrait/sell her fake image to me, so that I will put my defence mechanism down and started to trust her because I will not see her as a threat but a genuine seeker.

Over the years, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo befriended me, gifted me with gifts, using many excuses such as we are both Chinese speakers to make me feel special so that I will eventually becomes her weapon one day. #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo also make sure she gaslight me into believing that she had language problems and that she faced challenges when working with the Sydney volunteers, but she was cleverly omitting the truth of what she has done to the group dynamics such as creating wedges, forming groups, making allies, etc.

A common tactics used by Narcissists

Because I was playing my own games of superiority complex and grandiosity, I became a ready prey for #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo. She saw my weakness and used me as her flying monkey to convey her situation to Sree Maa, as well as ensuring that I became the strong supporter of her lies that she was being “bullied” by the Sydney volunteers, that she was being treated like an outcast due to language barriers and discrimination. On the hindsight, she does not have any issues in expressing her thoughts when she wanted shift blames on others or share the sob stories. The truth is that she actually has a degree in English language.

Narcissists operate as the Wolf in the cloak ... BeWare!!!

From this you are able to see on so many levels how narcissist operates, we plan, recruit, execute and in the process damages had been done such as character assassination, disrupt the group's dynamic, create doubts and distrust, innocent & genuine people were misused, manipulated and poisoned with the lies. 

The above is just one of the narration of what has happened. Narcissist can NEVER say that we do not know what we are doing as these has been all carefully planned and articulated.

Please refer to the below link for more insight:

https://www.kosmicfusion.com/false-claims-vs-truth-reality-check-on-the-story-of-joy-kuo/

My feedback to the Paid article

The truth will eventually set us free because lies can never withstand the test of time… In the society today, there are many situations where we lie just to get away with things in our life. May it be with colleagues, friends and family members … eventually, this “habit” becomes a reality and become part of us… Just like the many lies that Dallia and Irene have given in the paid articles, there was only 1% of the truth, the rest was being manipulated. Selective information was given to put themselves in good light… this is the time that truth is being buried in lies and more lies

Dallia and Joy Kuo suddenly have "Amnesia" when the need to speak the truth is required

A common phrase from Narcissists

A picture tells a thousand words of Dallia and Joy Kuo's action

Below is my feedback on the article sent which sadly the journalists ignored 😔

Please refer to the below link for more insight:

https://www.kosmicfusion.com/false-claims-vs-truth-reality-check-on-the-story-of-joy-kuo/

Smear Campaign

During my journalling of my experiences, the 2 narcissists have made their move to start their smear campaign with paid articles to seek revenge for their masks being peeled off… they have indeed lived up to their names and has again proven how much of a Narcissist they are … it is sad to see that they never fail to ensure that their seeking of vengeance is being executed just to satisfy their inner needs to play victims, to gain sympathy so that they can trap more innocent people to be their supplies…. I guess the word STOP will not be found in their dictionary 

This quote speaks for Dallia and Joy Kuo

Narcissists see people as Objects

Sree Maa and Shri Ji are the ONLY victims of our evil acts

I have been a hypocrite for most of my life, I never know how to be real and genuine. It is Sree Maa and Shri Ji who has shown me not to be afraid to be real human... this is the very same lessons being shared with Dallia and Joy Kuo as well but they chose to indulge in the Lies vs facing the Truth ... Lies will eventually be exposed...

Instead of working on the weaknesses, Dallia and Joy Kuo chose to be the ungrateful ones, backbiting the one and only Sree Maa, Shri Ji who show Kindness and Love to them...

I would like to share some of the most ridiculous questions raised by the journalists of the paid articles, this is to share some light on how Dallia and Joy Kuo manipulated the media platform to suit their evil agendas

Please refer to the below link for more insight:

https://www.kosmicfusion.com/false-claims-vs-truth-reality-check-on-the-story-of-joy-kuo/

The crazy world

Narcissists are literally the “criminals” who walked away “crime free” as the damage that they have caused to their victims will never be accountable for … There are no measuring scales to determine the emotional & mental damage the narcissists have done to their targeted victims and in this current world there is no medicine to this illness of ours, that’ why most answer to narcissism is NO CONTACT RULE

Now looking back at what I have done, I was never grateful but spiteful towards Sree Maa and Shri Ji for being my guiding light to come out from my murk. I knew that there is something dark inside me that needed to be looked at and seek Sree Maa and Shri Ji’s help.

Sadly when Sree Maa and Shri Ji trusted that I wanted to make the change and give me encouragement and guidance, I backed out and betrayed Sree Maa and Shri Ji.

Just like how Dallia and Joy Kuo betrayed the Love and trust showered upon them by Sree Maa and Shri Ji, they choose to run a smear campaign against Sree Maa and Shri Ji as their Egos are hurt, all they desire is to seek revenge, retaliate and punish those who go against their wishes and to those whom they deem responsible for peeling off their fake masks. Dallia and Joy Kuo make all efforts to ensure that their evil plans succeed in creating damages to Sree Maa, Shri Ji and Kosmic Fusion, when they make the media platforms as their tool to run a smear campaign.

Sree Maa and Shri Ji are the ONLY victims of our games, we were using flying monkeys, gas lighting each other and innocent pulsars, exploiting Sree Maa and Shri Ji’s kindness. Unfortunately both Dallia and Joy Kuo did not STOP and choose to behave in a despicable and shameless manner, they kept copies of Kosmic Fusion intellectual properties and claim as theirs (their agenda is to bring it to other places to start anew overseas) and exploit the teachings received from Sree Maa for their personal gain…

Both Dallia and Joy Kuo has fabricated stories to make themselves look like victims, slandering and tarnishing Sree Maa and Shri Ji’s good name for their evil games of revenge. It was a one-sided story as they never shared and be honest about what they have done to me and others …. which is so wrong! Now I shall share my side of the stories of my ordeal, how terrible I was treated by them, how they degraded me and break my self-esteem and self-confidence to the extent I have a phobia for public speech, how they use projection, triangulation to get what they wanted, how they played with my mind … and the story continues….

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Below are the common traits of Narcissist which I can relate to as I have some shades of them in me,

• Grandiosity

• Power and Control

• False sense of entitlement

• Jealous and Envious

• Lack of Empathy

• Exploitative

• Superiority Complex, arrogance

• Needed excessive of Admiration

• Fixated on fantasies of power, success, etc 

The above traits which I will discuss further in the next few blogs about what narcissistic traits Dallia and Joy Kuo had displayed towards Sree Maa and Shri Ji, Kosmic Fusion and volunteers of Kosmic Fusion.

Ashram House Project

In the spiritual journey for many, I believe that at one point in time there will be thoughts of wanting to go on a spiritual retreat, to be away from the material world and give the soul a break to start looking within so that healing can happen.

In Japan, there is “Henro”, a walking route that takes in 88 temples on Japan’s southern island, a journey that leads toward self-discovery and personal growth, there are also seekers who go for a spiritual Zen meditation experience to seek to enter a state of selflessness by shutting out worldly desires. 

Henro Route
Image by nippon.com

Image by japan-magazine.jnto.go.jp

In Korea, Thailand visitors stay in the monastery to experience the lifestyle of a monk and In India, there are Ashram for spiritual seekers to visit their Gurus and receive discourses as a group.

The Ashram concept is no alien to anyone, it has only been explained and terms in a different way but the basic concept is the same, for the soul to have a break from this material world and seek soul relief during this period of time.

In 2016, some volunteers were inspired by the great love, devotion that Sree Maa has displayed during the Taupo retreat. Like-minded volunteers wanted to do something so that more spiritual seekers can benefit from this communion between Sree Maa and Bhagwan Shreeji Maharaj.

So Rita and I volunteered to take the lead to start this project of an Ashram House so that we can learn and experience what an Ashram would be like if we want to build one in future. The idea is to have Sree Maa and Shri Ji invited into the Ashram house so that the “setting” is more real and Sree Maa, Shri Ji can share some guidance on how to run an Ashram.

We started the project in March 2016 when we found a house that was suitable to run the Ashram house project. We cordially invited Sree Maa and Shri Ji to the Ashram house which Sree Maa and Shri Ji graciously accepted.

Sree Maa and Shri Ji has sacrificed personal time and space for us to come together and learn something in order for the Ashram project to be realized, the volunteers’ dream is to bring this Ashram project forward, build a place and space which is safe for anyone to come and seek shelter for spiritual upliftment through meditation, listening to discourses or reading scriptures. 

Sree Maa and Shri Ji have graciously given us the tool, that is Quantum Vortex Scalar Wave Photon Pulse, the platform which is the Ashram house to run. There is a Chinese saying, 师父领进门，修行在个人, you can lead a horse to the water but you can't make him drink, I am ashamed to say that few of us came with the wrong intention and were mucking around, I have contributed to the destruction of this sacred Ashram house project because when I saw how Dallia and Joy Kuo were displaying destructive acts and started to bully the volunteers in both subtle and outright manner, I sat on the fence and never red flag any of them as I chose self-protection over being a team player.

I have let Sree Maa and Shri Ji down by acting small, playing games with the volunteers of Kosmic Fusion, being a flying monkey of Dallia, Joy Kuo and wasting precious time of Sree Maa and Shri Ji for being a bystander because of self-preservation and not practising what is being taught by Sree Maa and Shri Ji ... Honesty, Integrity and Authenticity

ALL KNOWING - See No Evil, Hear No Evil, Talk No Evil

Have you ever wonder how humans are created in the first place?  Or appreciating this amazing body that we have or wonder how such complex systems within this small physical body of ours operates on its own, how the veins are the plan in such delicate manner that it did not cross each other's path???... Questions that were raised by Sree Maa to make us reflect... After pondering ... I believe there is something greater out there which this peanut brain of mine will never comprehend… There must be someone out there who is all knowing …. the all-knowing, omnipresence, omnipotent …

Beloved Sree Maa Shri Ji 

Now looking back, Sree Maa has always been the ALL Knowing. In the FiT (Facilitator- in- training) program, I recalled Sree Maa shared a photo of “See no Evil, Hear no Evil, Speak no Evil” to all of us. I was unable to see the hiint that Sree Maa was giving to me ... TO STOP these acts before I regret, which I choose to bypass.

In Sree Maa’s teachings, multiple times of readings are required in order to grasp the many different levels of teachings that Sree Maa shares … Forewarning always has been given to all of us, including the ones who have the potential to choose the wrong path, just like what Dallia and Joy Kuo had taken ...

 QUOTE from Sree Maa:
‘Hear no evil, see no evil, speak no evil!’ What you did not learn as children were ‘Think no evil!’

On the hindsight, the message given was on 2 levels …

To the VICTIMS - Practice Discernment 

1. DO NOT to be blinded by what the perpetrators have presented to them
2. DO NOT listen with face value without finding the truth or have an overview of what was being told
3. DO NOT fall into the trap of the perpetrators and spread information that has not been verified

Another red flag raised by Sree Maa
To Victims - Do not be recruited as Flying Monkeys
To Narcissists - Do not use innocent people as our Flying Monkeys 

To the PERPETRATORS - STOP before it's too late

1. DO NOT try to pull wool over the victims’ eyes
2. DO NOT try to fill the victims’ ears with toxic lies and rumours
3. DO NOT try to slander and run a smear campaign

In the teachings of Sree Maa, it is always about the righteous way of living, practise discernment and does not harm anyone due to personal agenda and while all these are being taught … Sree Maa and Shri Ji have put themselves on the table and being the sacrificial lambs so that we can learn something valuable.

Reminder to us by Sree Maa 

First encounter ....

Being in my delusion world, my made believed reality. I was in my game of search for spiritual liberation and that I am ready for the Absolute TRUTH… On the hindsight, I see that I am lying to myself and beloved Sree Maa and Shri Ji.

I made use of Sree Maa to get me a job in New Zealand with my sob stories, Sree Maa being kind as always recommended me to Rita, who is also a volunteer of Kosmic Fusion, instead of working for Rita and respecting Rita like a boss, I started to fight with her. I have breached the trust given by Sree Maa Shri Ji by behaving in an ungrateful manner.

Having traits of a co-dependent narcissist, I was triggered by Rita and all my narcissist traits flow out like a fountain, I could not suppress myself in front of her, my mask fell apart, I was in competition with her, wanting to put her down as I cannot stand to see her better than me, I was unable to stand Rita’s façade as I was able to see through her games because I was doing the same as well. My narcissism came back full power… my evil, mean nasty self was at its peak.

Dallia, who was the master of manipulator, a full blown malignant narcissist, saw the crack and took the opportunity to create wedges between Rita and myself, she poisoned me with negative comments about Rita, such as pointing out to me that Rita has trust issues with her when she was working in her shop (also with recommendation by Sree Maa), that Rita was wearing revealing clothes to get guys attention … all these while to hide the fact that she wanted to get even with both me and Rita.

Why would anyone want to do that? Being a Malignant narcissist, she cannot see anyone having something that she cannot have due to excessive jealousy and envy. Dallia needed to punish Rita for owning a business, house, car, wearing expensive clothes and carrying branded bags when she has to struggle to live within her means. Dallia needed to punish me for taking the job/position that she was eyeing in Rita's shop for so long, which she sees as her entitlement 

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This is just the beginning of me being played by the narcissists around me…. the hint which is given by Sree Maa Shri Ji that I choose to bypass ..... QUOTE:  “ when you are playing others, others are playing you”

Learn ... Un-Learn ... Re-Learn

In my journey of self-discovery... I am given the platform to Learn, Un-Learn and Re-Learn about my self, Self, SELF ...My beloved Guru/Mentor Sree Maa and Shri Ji are always there to give support, encouragement in every little step I take so that I have the strength to work on myself... I am so grateful and thankful to my Guru/Mentor Sree Maa and Shri Ji for the unconditional LOVE and Grace for embracing me for who I am.

Sree Maa has always maintained full transparency to the public that Sree Maa's teaching is about the Absolute TRUTH ... which is very difficult for general public to digest as the antidote is to summon our courage to get ugly with our EGO self and the seekers who are lost and have been searching for an answer to freed themselves from their own melodramas, will be shared with the Absolute TRUTH ... no sugar coating. 

Not everyone wants to accept the ABSOLUTE TRUTH

This is the USP of Sree Maa's teachings which I love the most.

Since day 1, I have always been shared about the importance of Honesty, Integrity and Authenticity in Sree Maa's teachings, NEVER once I had been misled into anything I am not ready.

I am sick and tired of my old self and for ONCE, wanted to make change for the betterment of my soul. Life cannot be just about “EAT...SLEEP and DEATH” …. there must be something more … as I continue my journey of searching ...most answers I have gotten from other spiritual groups were unable to give a satisfactory answer to "What's beyond death" … the answers were so vague and I became more lost as I was feeling more confused ... until I found Sree Maa and Shri Ji. I am able to resonate with what Sree Maa is teaching, deep down I was screaming to myself "This is the one! Never let it go!" since then I became a volunteer for Kosmic Fusion. I can NEVER say that I do not know what I have signed up for because this is what I am looking for ... the Absolute TRUTH!

This is the what happens to the world right now ...

Life changing moment

I was happily married to a nice guy for 5 years, I was being pampered and showered with Love and care. I started to show my true self to him, being demanding, unreasonable, throwing tantrums, giving him silent treatment or doing my sudden “disappearance” show to make him worried. Played with his mind, giving him additional stress on a daily basis.

Finally, he was unable to cope with my games and filed for a divorce. He maintained “NO CONTACT” rule because he sees that Narcissistic traits in me. He left a comment to me that “ I felt cheated into this marriage as you are not the same person I fell in love with” So true it is …. I was wearing the mask of a 2 faced liar … that Miss goodies shoes are NEVER me, it’s just a fake Identity that I used. To expose a Narcissist, spend time with us as we can NEVER keep our mask for 24 hours a day.

NO Contact Rule

Being a co-dependent narcissist, my world fell apart when my supplies left me. I went into hibernation, depression and cut myself off from people around me. This is the time I went crazy and nearly mental because of my self-inflicted pain and suffering as I was in total denial. I went on a spiritual spree to seek a remedy for this emptiness that I was feeling inside, I desperately wanted to heal myself… that’s where I found Sree Maa and Shri Ji in the exhibition. I always remember the first day I met  Sree Maa and Shri Ji, it was their warmth and welcoming vibes that attracted me to their booth.

I first went for tarot readings, aura soma reading sessions with Sree Maa as I wanted to find out more about what went wrong in my marriage due to the need to be in control. I wanted to make changes in my life with the easy way out. As usual, trying to find fault with anything except myself.

All these while, I was abusing  Sree Maa, Shri Ji’s kindness and went to the apartment,  join Sree Maa, Shri Ji for dinner, get a free consultation, healing sessions on my off days. My twisted mind justifying my act by saying  Sree Maa and Shri Ji are being so kind but never once reflected that I was imposing myself on Sree Maa and Shri Ji's personal time and space, taking full advantage of Sree Maa, Shri Ji as I was playing the victim of my failed marriage.

Sree Maa knew that I was in financial difficulty and offered me many of the free NEW clothing, accessories so that I can start to build my self-confidence in order to move on with my life.