Signs of Malignant Narcissist which victims can help to assist themselves in RED FLAG us so that prevention can happen. It also serve as a warning for the victims
- Lies - you can find that we lie alot to get away with things
- Twist things - we will twist/ turn things around to "win/ control"
- Use & Discard - we see people as Objects, when we do not need you, we discard/devalue you
- Blame games - when things went wrong, first thing we do is immediately find a scapegoat, point fingers and question the victims
- Manipulate - will use situation/people to manipulate to achieve our plan/agenda
- Scheme - we may act in a covert manner just to observe our target so to get them
- Gas lighting - we gaslight our victims so that we can use them as our flying monkey
- Grandiosity - In order to show off, we will make use anything and anyone just to look good
- No emotions - we are lack of compassion, lack of empathy
- Projection - saying things that you are not, to create confusion
- Triangulation - using third party to get to the other party, through character assassination
The below is the narration of what happened in the Ashram House when #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo came to the Ashram House
In mid 2017, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo came to the Ashram House. When she first stepped into the Ashram House, she was expecting that we serve her and respect her because she see herself as the greatest student of Sree Maa and Shri Ji. In her head, she was the top dog and with that she demanded respect from us.
Looking back at what really happen, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo wanted to take control of the Ashram House immediately, she leave us with no chance to retaliate or voice out our opinion. Being a "hardworking/ self motivated" individual, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo wasted no time to boss Rita and myself around to show us our position, giving us instructions of what needs to be corrected in her eyes, so to bring us down and crash our self esteem.
I still remember she said to me that she came to teach us how to run an Ashram House, I was playing my victim game in the Ashram House and did not once question her why she said that when she does not even stay in the Ashram House before.
During her stay in the Ashram House, I got to witness first hand how she pushed blame and point fingers at me immediately because #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo was desperate to be in Sree Maa and Shri Ji's good books at any cost, especially now she has been so close to Sree Maa and Shri Ji, it was her golden opportunity to get the "recognition" so that she can manipulate the innocent volunteers using Sree Maa and Shri Ji's name.
Not long after she arrived, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo insisted of wanting to celebrate Guru Purnima when Sree Maa and Shri Ji had clearly told us not to (if Sree Maa and Shri Ji, Kosmic Fusion is what #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo has claimed as cult, I believe this action of her definitely proved otherwise) She went ahead to get Rita to drive her to get all the preparation done, she even did projection to the innocent volunteers to support her funding so that she can steal all the credits because she headed this preparation.
To know a narcissist, you have to spend time with us. It was in the many weeks that staying with #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo that I get to see her true colour, one's mask cannot be put on for 24 hours a day, we will slack and not able to keep up with the false identity of ours. In the many times when we were in the Ashram house kitchen, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo will shove me aside in a rude manner without saying "excuse me", apparently in her mind, her things were more important and we can wait.
#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo was quick to fill Sree Maa's ears with our "mistakes" (in her eyes) to Sree Maa so that she can be the best. She also make sure that I fight with Rita by asking me to pass on messages which will trigger Rita, of course as we fought, resulting in creating more distress, chaos in the Ashram House.
Due to her need to control the Ashram House, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo was always questioning me why I did not inform her, even the smallest things like where the pepper was stored. That was my chance to ask her why was she doing that because she had her orientation when she first arrived in the Ashram House, but I did not because of self preservation and she got away with it as by keeping quiet I have enabled her and encouraged her to continue her abuse , manipulation and gas lighting, throwing her flying monkeys in the Ashram House.
There was once Sree Maa wanted to gift the Volunteers with clothing, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo was quick to try it on and claimed that she can fit in most of them and barely a few were left for the other volunteers. How much did she grab for herself, you would wonder .... it's 2 large luggage of clothes that she seized for herself... I was speechless .. in her twisted mind, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo sees that she's the only deserving one.
During her stay in the Ashram House, there was a Reunion Retreat happening, the objective was for all the FiTs (Facilitators -in- Training) to come together (without the presence of Sree Maa and Shri Ji) to have reflection, discussion and raise any concern in the group. It was also a golden opportunity for us to be honest with ourselves but few of us (Narcissists) still tried to hide and come out with more lies instead.
#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo used this opportunity to plan her attack a few people whom she deem as threat. She made sure that her "thoughts" were heard, she started her character assassination first of Jwala to me, telling me that Jwala wanted to bring her daughter to the retreat which #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo does not approved and see as inappropriate.
We had a few zoom call, she set her mind in using the call to deter Jwala from coming as she knew that being a single parent, Jwala will never turn up without her daughter even though Sree Maa and Shri Ji had encourage her to bringing her daughter over and even help to find child taker for the FiTs who wanted to bring their kids along.
#Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo used me as a flying monkey to present the schedule of the Reunion so that Jwala will opt out from this Reunion. She was afraid that Jwala, who is an out spoken person will expose her behaviour to the group. In order to silent Jwala, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo made sure Jwala volunteered not to come and eventually left Kosmic Fusion. #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo succeeded in throttling Jwala's voice.
The Reunion was a platform that #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo used to play her victim card, of "T_T .. see how much I have done" , " T_T ... I am not being support by the team" She did not spare anyone, especially Clarito whom she has groomed for 5 years, as she felt that she started to lose control over him, she decided to discredit him first before anything comes out. I am the witness to her "complains" that Clarito was not supportive, not working as ONE and giving her a lot of problems.
The truth is otherwise, she was bossing Clarito around, he was carrying her heavy luggage, booking her shutter bus, changing her air-tickets, checking on excess luggage charges... etc I was seeing her dark self surfacing, I even shared with Sree Maa, which Sree Maa encouraged me to share with #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo which I did. #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo turned all red when I told her, she even questioned me why I said that about her, not once reflecting within because she is too "perfect".
In her head, she was the greatest one who does not need to do any reflections on her actions. #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo was in delusion and lied to herself that she was sacrificing for others, she was in total denial of what she has done to the innocent volunteers of Sydney whom only wanted to spread and bring Sree Maa and Shri Ji's work to more people so that more people can benefit it and not using it as a money making machine.
It is sad to see that #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo does not think she needed help. She even started her smear campaign and even started her youtube channel of healing .... #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo self proclaimed as a energy healer of 10 years .. who certified her? where are her certificates?
Logically if we do proper Mathematics, #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo started with Kosmic Fusion in 2012, which means out of the 10 years she claimed 5 years she spent in Kosmic Fusion (which she has been disassociated with Kosmic Fusion so that she will not cause more harm to innocent people) and she did Buddhism for 10 over years ... where did this 10 years of healer experience came from I wonder ... so what is the REAL truth?
I think #Awakening with Joy/ #Joy Kuo just proven how much of a Narcissist she is ...
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